Nick’s mom was concerned that her son is not speaking as other 2 (two) year old does, so she went to her doctor to find out what was happening to him. He got referred to a pediatrician and confirmed that he meets the criteria of non-speaking autistic about two years ago:
Now 4 (four) years old, mom and grandma are extremely exhausted and worried about this boy. Wanting to know what is going on with him.
Nick has beautiful blonde hair and blue eyes just like his dad who is also coming from genetic of autistic dad. Grandpa has OCD and huge anger issue where Nick got to see the anger flared one day in the cottage which made him not wanting to see grandpa ever again.
Currently Nick is going through lots of curriculums which make him busy on tight schedules. When mom is at work, grandma is devoting her entire time to look after him.
Nick still likes to suck a pacifier, slaps on mom or grandma’s face while they are helping him. This behaviour of his baffles them. Mom and grandma are thinking why they give so much love and got slaps? Later we found out why and what it meant through Higher Self of Mom.
Mom slipped into a very deep trance and I started asking questions to her Higher Self (HS) on Nick. HS means Higher Self and P means Practitioner.
HS Autism runs in dad’s side of the family.
P Is that why he is autistic?
HS Yes.
P Right now he is non speaking, but his mom is wondering if ever will he speak?
HS Yes.
P When?
HS He is about 5 (five), he will speak.
P How is it going to happen?
HS It is just going to click in his brain, that he needs to talk and see words. The more words he listens, the more he imitates, and eventually he is going to make sentences and talk. At the moment his right and left brain are not connected well. He knows the words but not connected well with his mouth to talk. Nature will work itself out, just let go and mom does not have to do anything.
Then the HS shared the information that he being very sensitive to loud sounds he needs to go private school where a few kids can be catered with less noise and in the city where he lives there is a such school and provided the school name and location for mom’s reference. Mom is already sending him that school evidently.
P Why he took autism in this life?
HS To learn to tolerate and socialize with others, and for parents to learn more patience.
Apparently, mom and son had a beautiful, happy past life in northern Europe in Viking age, they were farmers and their role was exactly as the current life as mom and son. This life they are here together to learn harmony, and patience.
P So when he grows up what kind of work he is going to do?
HS Computer engineering.
So, my question to the HS about his future life as marriage and has his own family, to that the HS said “yes” to all.
Another thing that surprises mom is often mom and grandma get slapped from Nick, so I asked the question to the HS.
P Why he slaps mom’s face?
HS He is sensitive to “touching”. He is a “feeling” person. He is letting mom knows he wants more attention from mom. A form of attention seeking.
Though mom gives all the attention that she can to him in the world, he feels that is not enough, so he slaps mom and grandma. He wants to understand the environment and observes things. The HS advised mom to caress his face more, give massage on his face and body.
When it comes for his eating, Nick only eats pizza, toast, banana and waffle. So, I address why and what to offer him to eat.
P So why he likes those foods only?
HS He got it from his father. His father is the same way.
P So he does continue eating that way, Nick is going to have lack of nutrition. how mom can offer other veggies or fruits to his diet?
HS Try to introduce some new foods and also go to the feeding clinic. Let him touch and smell new things, and be more creative. Put new food in his foods that he likes. For instance, add spinach in his waffle.
Nick needs routines, a consistent routine. If gym is in the morning, just keep morning, not changing it to afternoon. That is important for Nick.
So, this life they are here together to help each other learning patience and tolerance. Nick is going to be a normal person when he grows up and will have a flourishing career and happy life.